THE MEMORY OF WATER : VI AND HER THREE DAUGHTERS

Madeleine Jones as Catherine and Michala Banas as Mary in THE MEMORY OF WATER. Photo Prudence Upton

British playwight  Shelagh Stephenson’s THE MEMORY OF WATER is set in Yorkshire in 1996 in mid winter with a snowstorm raging outside.

Three sisters meet, Mary (Michala Banas), Teresa (Jo Downing) and Catherine (Madeleine Jones)  meet at the passing of their mother,  Vi (Nicole Da Silva).

All of the action takes place in Vi’s  old bedroom, with a superb, finely detailed period set design  by Veronique Benett who  was also responsible for the  show’s costume design.  Rachel Chant’s very sensitive direction keeps the action flowing well

Families are, of-course, a rich terrain for play wright’s to explore, and Stephenson does so  plenty of humour and pathos.  As you would have no doubr assumed, the play is much more character than plot driven.

Nicole Da  Silva’s Vi is  a haughty woman  who  hasn’t been the best of mothers though she has tried her best. Through  the play she makes appearances, most telling being her interaction with her middle,  difficult daughter Mary. The scene was beautifully played by Da Silva and Michala Banas as Mary.

I kept on being drawn to Banas’ performance. A clearly  intelligent, articulate woman, a Doctor by profession,  she hasn’t been able to manage her personal life well.  She has been having an affair with a fellow Doctor,  Mike, played poignantly by Johnny Nasser, who won’t leave his wife, the main reason being that he needs to look after her because she is very ill with chronic fatigue syndrome. Mary has reason to believe otherwise.

Though there is plenty of chemistry between them, there is also alot of tension as Mary wants to have a child and Mike doesn’t.  As the play unfolds we also learn that there is more to Mary’s story.

Jo Downing gives a very strong performance as Teresa,  the oldest sister, who took over most of the responsibility  for her mum’s care when she descended into Alzheimer’s and  has looked after the practicalities of the funeral.

Whilst she appears to be the most ‘together’ of the three sisters but,  in one scene, after a few drinks, she lets out all her disappointments and frustrations.  It  is a very powerful scene, beautifully played by Downing. Her husband Frank, well played by Thomas Campbell, is embarrassed by Teresa’s outbursts  and tries to quell her anger but this just seems to fire her up even more.

It is a theme in Act 2  that each of the three sisters express themselves more.

The youngest sister Catherine, played with such verve by  Madeleine Jones, is a portrait in insecurity and attention seeking.  Whilst her two sisters have partners, she has not been able to hold on to a relationship,  and  is envious of them. She sees herself as a very giving woman but this isn ‘t  borne out by the facts.

The play’s title is a reference to the world of homeopathy. As Teresa says  water can remember the properties of a substance even after it has been diluted and the substance is no longer present. Water still has a memory of it, and the metaphor extends to  we  humans who can still remember and feel things long after they have gone,  with the metaphor extending to  the relationships within families and  how deeply they impact us, consciously and unconsciously.

My favourite scene in the play takes place when the solemnity of the occassion gives way to  the three sisters taking some of the dresses out of their late mum’s wardrobe and playing dress-ups with them. Their energy is very  playful and high spirited which comes as a great surprise to Frank who has just flown in to join the ‘grieving’ family.

Memory is a tricky thing.  How we remember the same events can be very different, and this is the case with these three sisters. Shelagh Stephenson’s play THE MEMORY OF WATER is playing the Ensemble Theatre, 78 McDougall Street, Kirribilli until the  29th November 2023.

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