Sonder is a remarkable one-person queer musical devised and performed by Riki Lindsay, that proves just how powerful and intimate theatre can be when a single artist brings their entire lived world onto the stage.
The very form of a one-man show is uniquely demanding: it requires not only exceptional vocal range, physical stamina, and musical versatility, but also the emotional power to hold an audience while unpacking the most personal chapters of one’s life. In Sonder, Riki Lindsay rises to this challenge with honesty, charisma, and vulnerability that feels both courageous and deeply human.
The show is unapologetically autobiographical, tracing the artist’s coming-of-age in New Zealand. We follow his journey as someone driven by achievement, connection, and a profound search for meaning and love. From early on, we see a young boy who is acutely image-conscious. His introduction to his Pacifica cultural heritage becomes both a source of pride and an early crucible for his self-image. He longs to rise to the challenge of manhood — to become a warrior — yet he carries the heavy shame of a family breakdown and the hidden wounds of childhood abuse.
Visually, the production feels perfectly at home in the intimate space of the Old Fitz. Under the sensitive direction of Alexander Berlage, a simple circle of light on the stage floor becomes the beating heart of the show — an inspired choice that functions as a spotlight of concentrated energy, a ritual space, and a protective circle within which this deeply personal story of vulnerability can safely unfold. Hanging from the ceiling above, mirrored panels quietly surround the performer, constantly reflecting and multiplying his image. With every movement, these fragments shift, splinter, and reassemble, powerfully echoing the central theme: a self that has been broken by shame and trauma, yet is gradually made whole again. Berlage’s direction masterfully balances raw, intimate storytelling with a striking visual spectacle. Riki’s writing partner, Mitchell Sloan, has composed a dynamic and contemporary musical score that gives escapist highs when needed, while also creating space for deep, vulnerable expression of pain, shame, and healing.
At its heart, this is a moving journey to authenticity — from performing an image to living truthfully.
Producing Company: Berlage & Co
Writer (Book & Lyrics): Riki Lindsey
Writer (Music): Mitchell Sloan
Director, Set & Lighting Designer: Alexander Berlage
Cultural Advisor & Mau Rakau Instructor: Herb Ratahi
Stage Manager: Jasmine Power
Sound Designer: Mitchell Sloan
Movement Director: Fetu Taku
Sound Systems Designer: Em-Jay Dwyer
Lighting Programmer: Lachlan Hogan
Production Photographer: Jessie Obialor
Cast (of 1): Riki Lindsey
